Sandra Day O'Connor

Sandra Day O'Connor is a retired United States Supreme Court
justice. She served as an Associate Justice from her appointment
in 1981 byRonald Reagan until her retirement from the Court in
2006. She wasthe first woman to be appointed to the Court.

Marissa Mayer
CEO of Yahoo!

Marissa Ann Mayer is an American business executive.
As of 2013 she is the president and CEO of Yahoo!.
Previously, she was a long-time executive and key
spokesperson for Google.

Drew Gilpin Faust
FIRST PRESIDENT OF HARVARD

Although they began admitting women to their graduate programs in
the 1940s, America's oldest University had never had a female
President, until historian Drew Gilpin Faust took the post in 2007.
Faust said of her role, “I hope that my own appointment can be one
symbol of an opening of opportunities that would have been
inconceivable even a generation ago... I’m not the woman president
of Harvard, I’m the president of Harvard.”

Nora Ephron
Filmmaker

The journalist-turned-screenwriter-turned-director paved the
way for women in film at a time when their talents were
underappreciated. Defining strong, funny female characters
both in film and on stage, and deploying a distinctive style
and formidable wit, Eprhon, who died June 27 at the age of 71,
set an example for filmmakers to come — both male and female.


Empowerment for Women!

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am a Project Manager in the Construction industry – a traditionally male role in a very male dominated industry. When I attend a meeting, I am The Woman In The Room.

Over the years, I’ve had my ups and downs but one thing has been very consistent – I always outperform my male colleagues. Always! While I can attribute much of my success to professional skills, the real discriminating factor is that I know how to lead men in their own environment.

The truth is that it is easier for a woman to lead men to a higher level of performance than it is for a man.

The secret is, knowing how to leverage your real female traits to change their behavior and improve their performance.

What I am presenting is different from what you will see elsewhere.  What I discuss comes from 30 years of real world experience in the male-dominated workplace.  It is from this experience that I address issues openly and honestly.

When you start using this website please read my page Pink, Blue and Purple Zones first because it is the foundation for all that I write about.  It is critical that as women we stop seeing ourselves through stereotypes.  Instead, we need to understand our real traits and how they work in balance and unison with male traits.  When we have this perspective we can stop doing what women have been advised to do for decades – act like men or become one of the boys.

We can empower ourselves as women.  As The Woman In The Room, your job is to lead the men.   If I have learned one thing in 30 years, it is – if you lead, they will follow.

I know most work environments are not as intensely male as the construction jobsite but I suspect things happen in your workplace that cause you to withdraw and subsequently hold you back.  My articles will help you understand your work environment and give you the techniques you need to assert yourself as a leader.

I want this website to generate lots of discussion and lots of ideas.  So please share your thoughts and experiences!

- Dot

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Finding the Formula For Making Coffee

I came across this story that a woman (Linda) posted on LinkedIn.  It goes along with a lot of my recent posts so I want to share it with you.  This is one of those stories that we like to pass on.  And generally that is what we would do. But I want to take it one (actually several) s

2012 Year of the Woman; 2013 Year of the Businessman Hero

I came across a statement I made in an article : The successful businessman is the Hero and the driver of our society. If you are paying attention to the stock market, 2013 is proving this statement is true. I don’t know what made me do it but on January 20th I turned on CNBC.